Upfront- I'm not 58, but most people put me at 50. I subscribe to the "use it or lose it" philosophy, so i work out at least 5 days a week. I’m a retired Police Lieutenant who's seen the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still have a pleasant attitude. Been a Commercial Real Estate VP in O.C.for 15yrs. Been divorced 3 yrs with respectful, grown children living locally. I'm new to Internet dating and somewhat reluctant..... but I'll get over that. Very physically active in life. Summer time is my favorite and usually spend time at the River in Arizona. For longer vacations, I prefer tropical places that have cocktails with little umbrellas. I've been Salsa dancing for the past 17 years, and enjoy the lasting friendships that comes with that activity. Thanks to my parents, I have a good temperament and a great respect for people. Candidly, political nonsense annoys me. I don't push any agenda, but I'm rather conservative. I'm very much a relationship kind of person, and I seek a genuine "partner" in life. I prefer casual dress, but I have three tuxedos and cleanup very nicely. I love animals and actually trained Arabian horses up until mid-college. Im independent and confident in who I am, So, if you’d like to know more just ask.